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Internal Family Systems, or IFS, is an approach that describes the mind as made up of different "parts" and works with them in a curious, gentle way. More and more therapists list it on their profiles. Here you can read how IFS is usually practiced, how training is organized and how to find an IFS therapist near you on NearbyTherapy, free for patients with no account needed.

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How Internal Family Systems began

IFS was developed in the 1980s by Richard Schwartz, a family therapist who had been trained in family systems thinking. In family therapy, clinicians look at how members of a family influence one another as a system. Schwartz began applying a similar lens to the inner life of a single person, noticing that his clients often spoke about different sides of themselves as if they were separate voices.

From that observation came the core idea of IFS: a person's inner world contains many parts, each with its own feelings, beliefs and intentions, and beneath them there is a core that the model calls the Self. The Self is described with qualities such as calm, curiosity and compassion.

The language of parts

IFS has its own vocabulary, and you may hear it on a first call.

  • Parts are the different inner voices or sides of a person.
  • Managers is the name for parts that try to keep life organized and under control.
  • Firefighters is the name for parts that react quickly when something painful comes up.
  • Exiles is the name for parts that hold older hurts and are often kept out of awareness.
  • Self is the core of the person that the model treats as a steady inner resource.

The model does not label any part as bad. Each one is seen as trying, in its own way, to help.

What an IFS session often looks like

IFS sessions are usually calmer and slower than many people expect. A therapist may invite the client to notice a feeling or reaction, locate where it is felt, and then get curious about the part connected to it. The client might be asked how they feel toward that part and what it wants them to know.

Some IFS sessions involve sitting with eyes closed and turning attention inward, while others stay conversational. Pacing is usually set by the client, and a therapist will often check whether it is all right to continue. IFS is used in individual therapy and also by some couples therapists, who work with the parts each partner brings into the relationship.

Licenses and training behind IFS

IFS is an approach, not a license. It is offered by licensed clinicians such as psychologists, licensed professional counselors, clinical social workers and marriage and family therapists. The license tells you what the person is legally allowed to practice in their state, while IFS training tells you how they work.

Formal IFS training is organized by the IFS Institute in levels, starting with Level 1 and continuing to Levels 2 and 3, and the institute offers a certification for therapists who complete further requirements. Other clinicians have taken shorter courses or read and consulted on the model. All of these exist in practice, so it helps to ask which applies.

Good questions for an IFS therapist

  • Which levels of IFS training have you completed, and are you certified?
  • How do you combine IFS with other methods you use?
  • How do you handle pacing if a session feels like too much?
  • Do you work with IFS in individual sessions only, or with couples too?
  • Do you see clients in person, online or both, and in which states are you licensed?
  • What is your fee, and are you in network with my plan or able to give a superbill?

Paying for IFS therapy

IFS sessions are billed like other psychotherapy sessions, so what you pay depends on the provider, their license, your city and your insurance. Some IFS therapists work outside insurance networks and provide a superbill for possible reimbursement. Our therapist that takes insurance guide explains these terms, and therapy without insurance covers self pay options.

Is IFS a type of family therapy?

Despite the name, IFS is usually practiced with one person. The "family" refers to the system of parts inside an individual, an idea borrowed from family systems therapy.

Do I need to believe in parts for IFS to make sense?

Many people treat the parts language as a practical way of describing mixed feelings. A therapist can explain how they use the model, and you can ask questions before deciding.

How can I check an IFS therapist's credentials?

Check the state license on the licensing board website and the NPI in the NPI Registry. For IFS training, ask the therapist which levels they completed and whether they are certified.

Does NearbyTherapy suggest which approach I should choose?

No. NearbyTherapy is a directory, not a medical service. A licensed provider can talk through whether IFS or another approach may suit what you are looking for.

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